To secure the restraints we mentioned yesterday that ropes or chains were necessary. Ropes are great because they are soft and easy to manipulate and if necessary tie into a knot. Chains on the other hand are often heavy and you cannot easily tie up with them.
Both ropes and chains are an effective bondage accessory and each have their strengths and weaknesses. If you are wanting to restrain your partner in a specific pose then ropes would be great e.g. if you wanted their legs parted prior to penetration with a large silicone dong or large silicone dildo.
Ropes are a more gentle form of restraint, however if you love bondage, then for a more authentic ‘dungeon’ look then chains may be a better choice. Many sex toy lovers and bondage enthusiasts love nothing more than seeing their partners chained up, tethered to their bed in preparation for sex.
If you incorporating ropes and chains into your sex toy and bondage play then another great thing to use is a padlock. With the padlock comes a great secure way of fixing in position your partner. Further more, as previously related to, the aesthetic achieved with such accessories can really arouse you and your partner. A thick and chunky padlock says “I mean business” and “you are at my mercy” and your submissive partner will love it.
Furthermore, with the employment of a padlock it inevitably means that the dominant partner has the power and control of the key. Without which, the submissive cannot be freed.
Because John Thomas Toys are medical grade platinum silicone in addition to be being body safe sex toys then also have the versatility that they can be warmed up or cooled down prior to insertion in the body.
We suggest that you place your large silicone dong in hot (not boiling water) for 5 minutes prior to use. Always test to ensure it is not too hot as-well as that would be a passion killer. Alternatively place in the fridge or freezer for a short time (again test before use) and that way you could potentially alternate between hot and cold adult toys as part of your dominant masochist role playing.
If you want to take things to the next level with your bondage partner then a great adult toy accessory is spanking paddles. They do not have to be anything fancy and you can improvise with what you have got in the kitchen cupboard. Using an appropriate tool for spanking provides the dominant partner with a vehicle to illicit further control and punishment upon their submissive partner.
Spanking paddles may be made from wood or leather and in extreme cases may have metal studs (not for the feint hearted!). The favoured area of the body to be spanked is the bottom and the practice of spanking can be highly arousing for both parties and helps to cement their roles within the BDSM fantasy. It may be that you only spank your partner is their behaviour has been particularly good or particularly good! It depends how your reward and punishment system is working.
Interestingly, if you are into bondage but do not have a sexual partner, there are sex machines on the market which are able to spank you automatically. Spanking machines, while not terribly fancy machines are able to hold an appendage such a wooden spoon and then retract it and forcibly spank your awaiting buttocks. Indeed, it may be that you choose to use it in front of your partner and allow them to choose what you are spanked with, plus how may spanks you are allowed to receive.
Similarly to Puppy Fetish gear, general bondage users may also employ the use of masks. While a Puppy Fetish mask is liable to resemble a canine head complete with realistic leather ears, other masks are likely to just be leather full face masks.
These masks often incorporate a means to close off the mouth (such as with the use of zip). Alternatively, bondage masks may have a built in blindfold.
The range of masks which bondage users can wear is vast. Some of the most impressive feature dildos upon them but again are more aimed at the experienced bondage practitioners.
Another accessory for bondage with your partner is the gag. We have looked at that in the Puppy Fetish gear so will not elaborate on it further here.
While many bondage enthusiasts use their beds to restrain their partners, there are also bondage equipment in the form of benches designed purely for this purpose. These purpose built pieces of equipment are great as they are tailor made for restraining your parter. We will look more at them tomorrow.