John Thomas Toys not only design and manufacture a stunning comprehensive range of adult toys such as large silicone dongs or jumbo silicone dildos, they also stock a range of compatible harnesses.
In this article we aim to explain what a harness is and for what purpose it is used.
A harness is an item which is worn by a man or woman to enable them to attach a sex toy or adult toy such as a platinum silicone dildo. The purpose of wearing a harness is that it enables them to have penetrative sex with their partner. This may be achieved via vaginal penetration or alternatively anally.
To the lay person it may be confusing why a man would want to wear a harness with a large silicone dildo attached. There are however a number of reasons why they do. Men who are afflicted by erectile dysfunction are one example of users who like to attach sex toys to harnesses.
If the man is unable to gain an erection then it follows that in some respects they are liable to be unable to please their partner sexually. This may or not cause a problem within their relationship.
If the man were to wear a harness with a platinum silicone dong attached then they are now able to pleasure their partner with penetrative sex albeit through the use of a sex toy rather than their own penis.
A further example of when a harness would be beneficial is when the man is affected by premature ejaculation. In short when he penetrates his partner he climaxes too quickly. This can often lead to guilt, low self esteem and frustration on both sides of the relationship. It could also have the potential to end the relationship.
Through the use of a harness with a platinum silicone sex toy, the man can penetrate his partner successfully. When the time comes that their partner has been fully satisfied or is imminently about to be, the sex toy can be withdrawn and the man’s own penis can be used. At such point it is feasible now that both parties can climax simultaneously.
Women in gay relationships anatomically obviously do not have the means to sexually penetrate their female partner. Therefore with the addition of a harness and large silicone dildo they are then able to gain vaginal or anal penetration. The sex toys used with harnesses can be used for anal sex but as the anus does not self lubricate (like the vagina does) an abundance of personal lubricant is required. With every sex toy purchased from John Thomas Toy you will receive a free 4oz tub of Boy Butter lubricant which is body safe and as effective as silicone lubricants but will not degrade your adult toy or stain your sheets.
In addition to women using harnesses to render large silicone dongs to penetrate their female partners, women also use them in heterosexual relationships to penetrate their male partners. This usage of adult toys by women for the aforementioned purpose is known as ‘pegging’. The woman ‘pegs’ their man via his anus and is able to stimulate his prostate gland (responsible for producing fluid which carries their semen).
Women who ‘peg’ their men report feelings of power and dominance and this may or not be part of a wider BDSM role play they are acting out. Traditionally men would sexually penetrate women with their penis so this reverse enables the woman to feel ‘in charge’ and has provided a great deal of confidence within them. It also appears that some men thoroughly enjoy being pegged by their woman but obviously it would not be necessarily suitable for all heterosexual relationships as no doubt many men would never want to relinquish power in this way!
A final reason to explain why harnesses are worn to carry large silicone dongs or jumbo silicone dildos is because it may be that the person receiving the sex toy feels unfulfilled by the size of their partner’s penis. It may be that they harbour fantasies about very large silicone dildos or perhaps the notion of being penetrated by a fantasy creature or mythical beast is what arouses them.
John Thomas Toys have such a superb range of adult toys that there is something for everyone. If you are looking for a straightforward penis-looking dildo then we have plenty to choose from. If however you want something more ‘off the wall’ or creative then we have some truly weird and wonderful designs.
The best thing about our range of sex toys is that they are all vac-u-lock and O-Ring compatible so there are many harnesses for which they will perfectly compliment.
Before you order your huge silicone dong or jumbo silicone dildo check the specifications as they may be too big and too heavy for your intended purpose!